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I’ve been thinking of what kind of major events should I include in the blog entry for the past few weeks..perhaps the grand event of Appreciation Night 2007 or the once-in-a-lifetime my undergraduate Convocation, the 23rd for IIUM…how about the Fish Release Event last August? Including my sister’s Convocation yesterday at UTHM would also be nice…hmmm…

Yet, I have a better idea..(sendiri nyer claim..)..I would like to share the thing I like most in these big events that I have mentioned, or maybe in my daily life…For certain reasons, which I also dunno why..I seems to pay attention to the other side of the story..meaning? Well, let’s say that I had earned my scroll during the Convocation, after 4 years of a meaningful journey..I will look back and see many things that people tend to miss..who would have noticed that many people come to the convocation without their loved ones, their parents…who would have known that there are people who haven’t graduated yet, even if their time frame is over…?

Let’s take another example…let say there are 2 girls walking together…most of the guys would notice if  one of the girl is much pretty than the other one..I would, of course…but most of the times I would notice if there are  irregularities possessed by the other girl… how she would smile and all that…and most of the time I tend to like girls that for me deemed as unique and unusual…

So..what’s the deal? What actually I’m trying to say here…well, I feel that we always overlooked or missed the whole story when we are dealing with our daily life. We forget to put ourselves in other people shoes, and yet..we dare to judge them..even if we don’t know them…we don’t know their background…who are their friends…emm..for me…it’s just so wrong…

I remember the line from the 1st Shrek movie…the time when the donkey keep following Shrek and then Shrek asked,"why are you following me?". And the donkey answered,"why not?". Shrek replied, "I am an Ogre..6 feet tall, raging madness..people judge me before they even know me…" That line really touch me until now…That’s why I don’t make it a habit to judge people…I only judge their action…I believe that everything happens for a reason…that what keeps me motivated all the time…

And till now..I don’t know why did I choose to love and cherish something people don’t even bother to look at…to make friends with people out of the loop…to cheer up someone’s life even if I do understand that she or he won’t remember me someday…I’m doing it because I feel like doing it…and because I do know this…in the end it’s not about me and them…It’s always about me and Allah…